Last night, my husband and I went on a date. He surprised me with an exceptional omakase experience at Scratch in Healdsburg. The evening began with unique drinks and bites served on the veranda. Our host, quite charming, greeted the eight diners and shared what each person was celebrating. With a playful smile, he gazed at us and exclaimed, “Congratulations on completing a year of breastfeeding!” My husband and I burst into laughter, and I was touched that my reserved husband had included that note in our dining requests. Later that evening, the young women at the table shared that they had enjoyed watching us laugh together and hoped to find such a connection in their own lives. It was clear that they had come to the right person, and I felt compelled to help them visualize and manifest this wish.
After dinner, I couldn’t help but reflect on the significance of our laughter. My husband and I have faced challenges together. The reality is that we’re often surrounded by our children at different stages of development, each with their own unique needs. Despite our occasional disagreements and differing parenting philosophies, we’ve always managed to find humor in the midst of it all.
Earlier that day, we had a secret rendezvous in the shower. At one point, we were almost caught by a very curious toddler, and we found ourselves hiding in the corner of the shower behind the awning, laughing hysterically. These moments serve as reminders of the joy and connection we share, and I strive to carry them with me when the challenges arise. By cherishing the laughter we’ve shared, we’re better prepared to overcome the challenges life presents. I’m considering placing a Post-it note on my bathroom mirror as a gentle reminder to laugh, ensuring that I have that comforting reminder during the more challenging times.